Hilary & Brendan

Are getting married

Sunday, September 21st, 2025

Ocean View at Ballast Point • San Diego, California

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Our Story

How we found each other and fell in love

The Beginning

We met in our early twenties during our college days and became instant friends. Looking back, we always say our souls just weren't quite ready for each other back then.

Then on April 16, 2021, everything changed. A text from our mutual friend Matt invited Hilary to join the two of us for a casual night out. What started as a simple hangout turned into one of those unforgettable nights — we shared drinks, laughed for hours, and told stories until the early morning. Somewhere between the jokes and familiar conversation, something just clicked. We shared our first kiss that night, and from that moment on, we were inseparable.

The Proposal

Before popping the question, Brendan asked Hilary's dad, Mark, for his blessing. He made Mark promise not to tell Pam — but while they were in Switzerland, Mark couldn't keep the secret and ended up telling her.

As fate would have it, that very same day — September 2, 2023 — after a long hike to the top of Mt. Tamalpais, Brendan got down on one knee and asked Hilary to marry him. It was the perfect, serendipitous moment, surrounded by incredible views, happy tears, and a story we'll tell for the rest of our lives.

Our Future Together

Hilary, Brendan, and their beloved pup Lola currently live in Penngrove, CA. They look forward to a lifetime of adventure, laughter, and building a beautiful life together — wherever the road may lead.

Hilary and Brendan together

About Us

Get to know the bride and groom

Hilary

Meet Hilary

Born on November 4, 1988, in Escondido, California to Pam Perdue and Mark Warren, Hilary Shea Warren grew up surrounded by cousins, uncles, and endless family adventures — all within the same neighborhood. She later made her way to Sonoma State University, where wine country views and weekend hikes quickly stole her heart.

Hilary earned her Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration with an emphasis in Marketing and spent a year attending Santa Rosa Junior College while enrolled at Sonoma State, just so she could play on the tennis team — a decision that turned out to be fate, as it's where she first met Brendan (aka BK). She also gave lacrosse a shot during her college years, because why not?

Today, Hilary is a licensed esthetician at True North Health Center and a proud outside sales representative for Eminence Organic Skincare — a role that allows her to combine her passion for wellness, beauty, and helping others feel confident in their skin.

When she's not working, you'll find Hilary practicing yoga, hiking, swimming, or sipping coffee/lattes with friends. She's always planning her next travel adventure and inventing new nicknames for people (bonus points if she can tie it to their horoscope).

Hilary loves nothing more than spending time with Brendan and their favorite pup Lola, building a life full of laughter, love, road trips, and spontaneous adventures.

Brendan

Meet Brendan

Born on May 1, 1988, in Redwood City, California, to Maryann Teahan and Bruce Kuhlman, Brendan Christopher Kuhlman is a proud Northern California native with a Midwestern chapter. After several years in Minnesota, his family returned to Santa Rosa, where Brendan spent his early life growing up and going to school.

Today, Brendan is the Managing Partner of a telecommunications company, WebPerception. While at work, his days are filled with various duties of being a business owner but no matter the ups or the downs, he always his loyal sidekick, Lola, right by his side.

Outside of work, Brendan's the kind of person who comes home and immediately starts whipping up some tech concoction, constructing a backyard shed, or handcrafting a new wooden dog bowl for Lola. He's also the proud founder and president of the Movie Buddy Club, a title he takes very seriously - because life's better with a great film, good friends, and fresh popcorn.

Brendan is known for being a fiercely loyal friend, a devoted fiancé, and an A+ dog dad. He loves hiking, fishing, downhill mountain biking, tinkering with gadgets, sampling local craft beers, and tackling hands-on projects. His greatest adventure, though, is the one he's about to begin with Hilary.

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Event Details

Sunday, September 21st, 2025

Ocean View at Ballast Point

San Diego, California

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Getting There

140 Sylvester Road

San Diego, CA 92106

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